May 8, 2018 at 1:00 am #2230
She’s really frustrated with where she is in life career wise and other things. Every time she’s frustrated with other things, she manages to channel it to our relationship. She starts to question us, our compatibility, where we’re going, etc. Our relationship gets scapegoated
Recently she was feeling down and frustrated about a job offer. We were talking on the phone. She gave a list of all the possible routes that she could take career wise. After that, I said “So what’s the plan?”. She got angry when I said that. She said that I have no emotions and that I never try to help her. I asked “what is your version of help? I’m always talking to you”. It’s like she wants me to tell her what to do in life. I’ve gotten this feeling from her many times. Then she said “It’s like you have no soul”… This really hurt badly. She basically said I wasn’t a human. I was so stunned and perplexed. What did I do? I told her “I can’t do this, have a good night” and I hung up the phone.
I’m so hurt. No one has ever said that to me. I consider myself to be an emotional being like any other. When she says I have no soul, I feel like I am robbed of the characteristic that makes me human. I don’t know how to recover from this. It’s the most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to me. I’m crying as I type.
I can’t continue to see her. Someone who says something like this is not right for me. This hurts so bad. We’ve been together for over 8 months. With in the last 3 months or so she has had a lot of stuff going on her side. I’ve been there physically, emotionally, and have been there to talk. At the sacrifice of my happiness. But after this, I don’t see us continuing on.
I’m so sad…I have emotions like any other human. I’m positive I have a soul.
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